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Tuesday, June 30, 2020

What happened to Linda Reagan on Blue Bloods? Will she return?

"Blue Bloods" is a damn good TV show where police officers are the "good guys."

I know, I know...

It's currently unpopular to like a TV show where police officers are the "good guys" but I have never been popular.


Avenue Q Revival

This morning, the "Everybody's a Little Bit Racist" popped into my head for no particular reason.


The tune is from the Broadway musical "Avenue Q" and watching a video of that tune led me into a rabbit hole...

Metallica - The Judas Kiss (Remixed and Remastered)

Perhaps, when I retire, I will learn what it takes to remix and remaster tunes because, right now, I have zero idea what it takes to create a video like this:


I Really Enjoy TS



Deere & Co. rolls out another buyout program for U.S. salaried workers

Deere & Co. rolls out another buyout program for U.S. salaried workers

Nuts

I'm a huge Star Wars fan but I don't have $225,000 in my bank account and, even if I did, I cannot fathom the idea I would pay $225,000 for a toy. Thus, the person who bought the Rare Star Wars Boba Fett Toy [for] $225,000 USD is nuts.

Just Quit Trying! - The answer to your marriage!

In a movie or in a TV show, Jim said to Charlie that Jim doesn't trust anyone who acts as though they have it "all figured out."

At this precise moment, I can't recall what movie or TV show Jim said that to Charlie - and I doubt that the two characters were named Jim and Charlie - I just needed a clever way to name two characters so that I could quote a movie or TV show that I can't recall the name of.

I could post it to Facebook to see if anyone else has seen whatever movie or TV show I'm thinking of... Hmmm.

Anyways, I mention this movie or TV show because when I read the subject of the email I received (and have pasted below), I immediately thought about those two characters because proclaiming to have "the answer to your marriage" is silly. The authors of the email below do not know every couple to whom they sent the email so to presume to have the answer is, well, off-putting and egotistical.

That was my initial impression anyways when I read the subject. It did prompt me to read the entire email so I grant the authors with an A for writing a compelling subject for their email.


That may sound like a contradiction or maybe an error in the message. But it isn’t. Couples spend years “Trying” often with little or no success. So many couples are worn out from the effort to create a passionate, dynamic and loving marriage – and give up because they don’t get anywhere.

So we say, QUIT TRYING.
Or better yet, STOP TRYING THE SAME OLD THINGS THAT GET YOU NOWHERE.

When John approached us, he had all but given up. He was now in a sexless marriage, with little open communication or affection.

As a married couple, both Angela and John had given their marriage a lot of attention. But over the past 5 years, of an 11-year relationship, they were exhausted and now believed they could never have more.

The pain and hurt they experienced from each failed attempt, left them hopeless.

Have you felt that way – that a great marriage with love, passionate sex and affection, was unattainable?

That is simply not true.

But when you try over and over again, with the same efforts as before, and never move ahead, something is wrong with the process you’ve been in. That process included 3 different marriage counselors over the past 5 years.

Let me make it clear – we all have beliefs and life experiences that teach us lessons in living. But most don’t teach us how to truly love one another.

When we got on the phone with John, he made it clear – he didn’t want another failed attempt. We got his wife Angela on the phone – she sounded so frustrated. Here’s the kicker – they both loved each other but couldn’t get a feeling of being “In love” no matter how hard they tried.

We walked both of them through the possibilities – HUGE POSSIBILITIES. We explained how the right steps, focusing on re-working old belief tables and mindsets, would unlock the dark place they lived in and would move them to a passionate, exciting life together.

They were both willing to try – reluctantly – but willing. What shocked them was the progress they made in just 3 to 4 weeks. Sex returned. Empathy returned. Getaways were planned.

John said, “I can’t believe it, but I’m falling back in love with Angela all over again.”

Angela told us, “I look forward to time together and having sex – I can’t believe it.”

The right process means results.

AND RESULTS YOU WOULD NEVER EXPECT.

You too can have a great marriage, filled with all the excitement and deep connection you’ve always wanted.

But you have to say yes and take action. You’ve been trying same old things – resulting in the same stuck place and lack of change – real change.

Let me say that again – YOU HAVE TO SAY YES. Whatever fears and hopeless feelings you have, DON’T LET THEM STOP YOU FROM TAKING ACTION.

We know the exact steps you need to take to get there – the exact steps to create the life and the marriage you long for. We have the steps to

REVOLUTIONIZE your marriage.

So take a life-changing stand. Stop trying the same things all over again.

THERE IS SO MUCH MORE FOR YOU

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Monday, June 29, 2020

Someday Might be Some Day in the Future

This page on Graham Mayor's website - Word Pages - is likely to be very helpful. I don't know when that will be, but it is likely to be prior to within the next 5752 days (15 years, 9 months) which is when I want to retire from the HCIS department at the University of Iowa.

Wisdom Teeth



Sunday, June 28, 2020

OO in DM TODAY!!!!

Editor's Note: One of the joys of scheduling a post for publication is that it can be forgotten and what gets posted should have been edited. Sadly, no, the Ozzy Osbourne concert in Des Moines, IA, that was scheduled for tonight, has been postponed. Or canceled. Not entirely sure.
On April 4, 2019, which feels like ages ago, mainly because it was 453 days (1 year, 2 months, 3 weeks, 5 days) ago, I read on Loudwire.com the sad news that Ozzy Osbourne Suffers Serious Injury, All 2019 Tour Dates Postponed.

I remember 4/4/2019. When Karen and I were eating brat patties with mashed potatoes while watching "The Big Bang Theory," I told Karen that the Ozzy Osbourne concert had been postponed to June 30, 2020.

She asked, "What if we're busy that night?"

I said, "Does it involve boobs?"

She said, "No."

I quipped, "I'm going to see Ozzy Osbourne."

Not more than 1 hour later, my friend Jason Lester called me. He was the friend who originally asked me if I wanted to go with him to see Ozzy in concert.

He was quick and direct: are you still in for Ozzy for the postponed date, he asked.

You know my answer.


Thus, tonight in Des Moines, IA, I am going to see Megadeath open for Ozzy Osbourne at the Wells Fargo Arena. I cannot wait!

Wednesday, June 24, 2020

A Bone to Pick - A Promise to Break

I really like the creativity of the lyrics - it made me think of bands like Pain and 1997.


And This is 1997, since I mentioned them:


Editor's Note: The video is an edited version of the tune on the CD. There is an instrumental part here prior to the female vocalist.

New TS!



New Seether!







You Can Identify All You Want


You Need to Refocus

This is the text of a message I sent to my nephew who recently started playing drums. After I sent the message, I realized that it is also a message to myself except that instead of references to Motley Crue and Tommy Lee, I would have wrote about Metallica and Lars Ulrich

If you are serious about playing drums, it's not just about playing Crue tunes. You can only get so far with bashing the drums. If you want to truly be able to play the way Tommy Lee plays, you must spend time on your technique and the way you actually hit the drum.

This is not fun and it feels boring. You will get tired of playing patterns that you don't understand in relation to Motley Crue or anything that you like to listen to.

I can tell you this.

If you put your mind to learning how to hit the drums the right way, your potential is the sky.

I just came across this video. It's the kind of technique that I am talking about. It's not exciting but... I hope that you will watch it several times until the concepts are drilled into your mind. Also, you will not see an improvement in your drumming skills tomorrow by watching the video today. It will be several months until you are playing drums and BOOM! what was hard to do is easier to do.

It looks like there's many videos by this guy. I would watch it several times before going on to the next video.

Also, reduce the speed of the video so that it is a slower tempo - I did that when I was first trying to play with him. I think he assumes that the viewer is able to keep up with him!

Here it is.

https://youtu.be/QLzbnOEflyg

Tuesday, June 23, 2020

Celebrating R's PW

Permanent Waves 40th Anniversary

Fever 333

I'd never heard Fever 333 until today. I could take the comment by "Rhiannon DJ" below and easily replace "Fever 333" with Bayside... or with Count the Stars ...

I really like knowing that a band can connect with fans. 



Listen to Roberto!

Robert Trujillo Explains . . .

Dwight Interviews Himself



Bill Cosby is granted the right to appeal his sexual assault convictions

Bill Cosby is granted the right to appeal his sexual assault convictions

Half-Way There!

11 months down, 11 months to go!


Editor's Note: The above screen capture is from Friday, July 5, 2019. If I decide to upgrade when I am eligible to upgrade, I can do so in 153 days (5 months)!

Monday, June 22, 2020

No Hawkeye Express in 2020

Iowa football: University announces halt of ticket sales due to coronavirus uncertainty.

Also, from Patrick McCaffery's waiver approved; Iowa to build $4M soccer facility:

Also Friday, the UI announced plans to build a $4 million “state-of-the-art” women’s soccer operations facility. The new building, pending Board of Regents approval, would be built on the west-side athletics complex and be ready for the fall 2021 season.

The proposed facility would include locker rooms and offices that overlook the soccer field and is being financed by private donations. The Iowa women’s soccer program tied a school record with 15 wins last season under coach Dave Dilanni.

Drive E

This is what is within the e:\final_e-root folder:

     Total Files Listed:
           1416203 File(s) 9,375,216,038,072 bytes
            3893 Dir(s)  1,023,543,672,832 bytes free

News

When something as awful as a shooting takes place, it's important to get the news out to the world. That does not excuse the " " in the above screenshot.