I know, I know...
It's currently unpopular to like a TV show where police officers are the "good guys" but I have never been popular.
That may sound like a contradiction or maybe an error in the message. But it isn’t. Couples spend years “Trying” often with little or no success. So many couples are worn out from the effort to create a passionate, dynamic and loving marriage – and give up because they don’t get anywhere.
So we say, QUIT TRYING.
Or better yet, STOP TRYING THE SAME OLD THINGS THAT GET YOU NOWHERE.
When John approached us, he had all but given up. He was now in a sexless marriage, with little open communication or affection.
As a married couple, both Angela and John had given their marriage a lot of attention. But over the past 5 years, of an 11-year relationship, they were exhausted and now believed they could never have more.
The pain and hurt they experienced from each failed attempt, left them hopeless.
Have you felt that way – that a great marriage with love, passionate sex and affection, was unattainable?
That is simply not true.
But when you try over and over again, with the same efforts as before, and never move ahead, something is wrong with the process you’ve been in. That process included 3 different marriage counselors over the past 5 years.
Let me make it clear – we all have beliefs and life experiences that teach us lessons in living. But most don’t teach us how to truly love one another.
When we got on the phone with John, he made it clear – he didn’t want another failed attempt. We got his wife Angela on the phone – she sounded so frustrated. Here’s the kicker – they both loved each other but couldn’t get a feeling of being “In love” no matter how hard they tried.
We walked both of them through the possibilities – HUGE POSSIBILITIES. We explained how the right steps, focusing on re-working old belief tables and mindsets, would unlock the dark place they lived in and would move them to a passionate, exciting life together.
They were both willing to try – reluctantly – but willing. What shocked them was the progress they made in just 3 to 4 weeks. Sex returned. Empathy returned. Getaways were planned.
John said, “I can’t believe it, but I’m falling back in love with Angela all over again.”
Angela told us, “I look forward to time together and having sex – I can’t believe it.”
The right process means results.
AND RESULTS YOU WOULD NEVER EXPECT.
You too can have a great marriage, filled with all the excitement and deep connection you’ve always wanted.
But you have to say yes and take action. You’ve been trying same old things – resulting in the same stuck place and lack of change – real change.
Let me say that again – YOU HAVE TO SAY YES. Whatever fears and hopeless feelings you have, DON’T LET THEM STOP YOU FROM TAKING ACTION.
We know the exact steps you need to take to get there – the exact steps to create the life and the marriage you long for. We have the steps to
REVOLUTIONIZE your marriage.
So take a life-changing stand. Stop trying the same things all over again.
THERE IS SO MUCH MORE FOR YOU
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If you are serious about playing drums, it's not just about playing Crue tunes. You can only get so far with bashing the drums. If you want to truly be able to play the way Tommy Lee plays, you must spend time on your technique and the way you actually hit the drum.
This is not fun and it feels boring. You will get tired of playing patterns that you don't understand in relation to Motley Crue or anything that you like to listen to.
I can tell you this.
If you put your mind to learning how to hit the drums the right way, your potential is the sky.
I just came across this video. It's the kind of technique that I am talking about. It's not exciting but... I hope that you will watch it several times until the concepts are drilled into your mind. Also, you will not see an improvement in your drumming skills tomorrow by watching the video today. It will be several months until you are playing drums and BOOM! what was hard to do is easier to do.
It looks like there's many videos by this guy. I would watch it several times before going on to the next video.
Also, reduce the speed of the video so that it is a slower tempo - I did that when I was first trying to play with him. I think he assumes that the viewer is able to keep up with him!
Here it is.
https://youtu.be/QLzbnOEflyg
Also Friday, the UI announced plans to build a $4 million “state-of-the-art” women’s soccer operations facility. The new building, pending Board of Regents approval, would be built on the west-side athletics complex and be ready for the fall 2021 season.
The proposed facility would include locker rooms and offices that overlook the soccer field and is being financed by private donations. The Iowa women’s soccer program tied a school record with 15 wins last season under coach Dave Dilanni.
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Can Someone Get This to the President? Please?
Erick-Woods Erickson
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Now, I want to address an audience of one this morning, but will allow the rest of you to listen in on the very one-sided conversation.
Mr. President:
You have been figured out by the Democrats. It has been a strange thing to see these past few years. You have had the ability to steer the conversation however you wanted it to go. By taking to Twitter, you could get the entire media herd to chase in the direction you wanted, keep them discombobulated, and make their reporting incoherent. Often, you led them into mistaken reporting in their rush to be first instead of right and then used their bad reporting to discredit them. It has been something to watch.
But somewhere along the way, in these past few months of COVID-19, etc. the press turned this on you. Now, they are able to direct you where they want you to go and they want you to go nowhere. You are literally throwing punches in so many directions that your messaging is incoherent and you are off-balance.
You’ve also settled on some outdated messaging. “Law & Order President” has been done before. For the younger of the two presidential candidates, your branding right now is the most dated with a message like that.
Here’s the thing — the Mattis piece, the riots, the protests, the polling, etc. they are all distractions. Every single thing right now is a distraction and the press is using those distractions to distract you. You have the pieces of a compelling message, but the distractions are preventing you from being consistent.
I have a suggestion.
The last time a President won the election while losing the popular vote and then riding to a popular election mandate for a second term, George W. Bush had consistent messaging and was laser-focused on that message. In 2000, it was “help is on the way.” If anyone asked him a question, he’d always give a variation of “help is on the way.” It was impressive message discipline. It worked in 2000 and he repackaged it in 2004 for more success coupling it with portraying John Kerry as a flip-flopper.
The thing that is frustrating a lot of Republicans right now is that your message seems to change on a near-daily basis. Nobody can keep up. Some have given up. But there is a way for you to get out your “law and order” message while also being able to use it against Biden.
Dive into the polling and the underlying concern is the same. Over 70% of Americans are worried about the economy. They want the guy who can get the economy rebooted to be the guy who wins. The polling also shows most of them think you have a better shot at it than Biden. But you’re team is too distracted in messaging. So focus on this. Be the President who will “keep people safe and get them back to work.”
When the press asks you what to do in the George Floyd situation, you respond that it was terrible and Joe Biden backed the policies that caused that situation, but you’re working to keep people safe and get them back to work.
When the press asks you about your response to the riots, you tell them local Democrats are failing to keep people safe and put them back to work, but you are going to keep them safe and put them back to work.
When the press asks you about the viral spread, you point out Democrats didn’t want people going to church, but let them into the streets to spread the virus because they know an economic rebound will help you. They don’t want to keep people safe or send them back to work, but you do.
Every single message can go back to that — you will keep people safe and get them back to work.
You need a focused message. This one contrasts perfectly with Joe Biden.
Biden spent 40 years in Washington and helped write the laws the police have used to destroy the black community. You will keep the black community safe and get them back to work. Joe Biden was Vice President for eight years and never did anything to really help the black community. You’ll keep them safe and put them back to work.
The Democrats don’t want to end shelter-in-place but will let Antifa destroy businesses. You want to put people back to work and you want to keep them safe. It is an easy message to apply to any situation.
China? We are too dependent on drugs and goods from China. You want to keep people safe and put them back to work in America, so you want to advocate policies to make us less dependent on China in ways that create manufacturing jobs in America.
Keep your eye on the prize, Mr. President. Americans are ready to get back to work. You need to be advocating policies that do what? Keep people safe and put them back to work.
Focus, Mr. President. You know and I know the American people do not have a long attention span. We are in June. The election is not till November. You get the economy going again and keep people safe and you will win re-election. If you keep fighting in every direction, throwing undisciplined punches, and responding to every provocation and the Democrats are going to keep you off balance and usher you out of office.
Everything right now is a distraction. The economy is the focus. Those voters in the suburbs who don’t like you? They love their 401(K) and if you get it growing, they don’t have to like you, but they’ll vote for you because you kept them safe and got them back to work.
Sincerely yours,
Erick Erickson