Here's Hoping for 36...

Matthew left home around 8:30 to play golf with his friends. On the way out the door, he answered his wife’s “What time will you be home?” question with “Probably around 1:30 – I’ll have lunch at the club.”

1:30 came and went, 3:00 passed, 6:15, still not home, finally at about 7:00 PM he rolls in the driveway, leaves his clubs in the garage, and presents his wife with a pizza, and begins the apologetic story. "We finished our game about 11:30, had lunch, and I started home, when alongside the road I saw this attractive girl with a flat tire on her car.

I stopped to help, got the tire changed, and looked around for a place to wash my hands. She offered money, but I refused, so she suggested that I at least allow her to buy me a beer. She said there's a tavern just up the road, and they have a restroom, you can clean up a bit.

I agreed to stop, we had a beer, then another beer, then a couple more, and I realized that this girl was not only pretty, she was very friendly, and a good companion to spend time with. Before I knew it, we were in the motel next door having sex. And that is why I am so late getting home."

His wife looked him right in the eye and said "Don't bullshit me -- you played 36 holes, didn't you?”

Beyond the Resurrection

Jesus rose from the dead today! It is a great day for me to know that Jesus, who had died just three days earlier for *me* and my sins, came back from the dead to fulfill the path that God had set up for him. Jesus was human. That's the thing. Jesus was a political figure who was seen as a troublemaker and as someone who was seen as an instigator of rising up the people against the Romans. He spoke in parables and in ways that his followers really didn't understand. The gospels? Written a long time after his death. I always find that fascinating. I also have heard about the gospel of Judas that was not included in the Bible. I digress. The fact remains that Jesus died for me. Me. And you, of course. But he DIED for me. He said, "I love you so much that I am going to do the ultimate thing I can do and DIE for you." Wow.
That fact floors me every time I think about it. I heard about it at Holy Thursday Mass and I thought about it as I sat in Holy Saturday night Mass. Now, Lent is over and it is my hope to live every day as I did during Lent - reminded of the ultimate sacrifice that Jesus made for ME. And you, of course.

Really? Am I that Stupid?

I got the following email:

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Like I am really going to send you my user name and password.

Another Day

Today was okay. I found myself thinking and reflecting about where I am in my life, where I have been and where I hope to go. I hope that there is a reason for all the things that swirl around me in a frantic tempest. I hope the Big Four concert in CA this weekend is fantastic for all those lucky enough to see Anthrax open for Megadeth open for Slayer open for Metallica. It is the only concert by those four bands on the same bill in the United States. Thus far. Megadeth is touring later with Disturbed and Godsmack - a weird combo but probably being marketed to bring the old metal fans into the same building as the new metal fans. Why is Megadeth touring with them? I don't know. Megadeth could have taken Fear Factory or Testament or Sacred Reich on the road with them. I know all three have had radio success and granted, I have heard a Godsmack song followed by a Megadeth song followed by a Disturbed song on the radio and the trio sounded like it matched each other. In any case, I am not planning on seeing Godsmack/Disturbed/Megadeth in concert. Other than that, I hope tomorrow is a good day as well.

Life Moving Forward

I can see where a weak-minded idiot could easily lose faith in God. If they looked around the world and looked at the death, the destruction of human life, the way humans treat each other, the way the earth treats humans, and rolled all of that into one comprehensive thought, it would be conceivable to an idiot that there is no God and that life as we all know it is meaningless. Why I will never believe there is no God is faith. That is what religion really is. It is a step into the unknown with the hope and belief that there is a God, that there is a way that all of this, someday, will make sense and that there is a plan. With all my mind and all my soul, I believe there is a God. I believe there is a plan for me. I may not know what the plan is for me or what steps I have to take to complete the plan, but I believe that God has that plan, has known the plan since before I was born, and that someday, I will understand why all the things that have happened to me in my life happened.

If it's not one, it's TWO

This AM, the kids' laptop caught the same thing that I had just finished cleaning on the PC in the den. FINALLY, just got it cleaned up. Special place in h@ll for these folks...

Practicing

What I would do to be able to sound like this guy if I were to sit in front of my Ludwigs and practice...

Solved

I was able to run a program that killed the programs that were running. I'm running MalAwareBytes (I think that's the name) to make sure that there is nothing resident but I was (gasp) able to open Internet Explorer. l will say this and it is not a new thought, but if the assholes that created viruses used their knowledge for good, instead of evil, life would be so much nicer on the Internet. I just hope someday, something like that happens. This getting stressed out about viruses is for the birds. And the birds don't use the Internet.

SICK OF IT!!!

The idiots that created the XP Home Security virus/malware that has infected the PC in the den had better hope I never run into them because I will not be responsible for what happens. There ought to be a special place in hell for these idiots.

Back to Basics

Do you ever think about what single decision sent you on your current path in life? I've been thinking about it a lot lately. I don't have anything other than some observations. First of all, I am happy with where my life has taken me. I have a beautiful wife and two wonderful kids. I have a full-time job. I have a house. I have food in my belly and I'm not under a cloud of credit card debt. Life is pretty damn fine. I think it's more importatnt to be happy in the moment than to fret about 'what if I had done' or 'what if I had said A instead of B' type of situations. That is my new mantra - move forward. I think it is important to know what happened in the past and to cradle it in awe that I could have been like that. I also think rereading college-era journals shed a light on who I was and who I want to be now, in 2011. They are different people. Totally different people. Focusing on the differences and living life as who I want to be now, in 2011, is the path for me.

Daily Prayer

Dear Lord,

1. You took my favorite bassist Cliff Burton.


2. You took my favorite guitarist Jimi Hendrix.


3. You took my favorite drummer John Bonham.

I just wanted to let you know that my favorite president is Barack Obama. Amen.

Journey through the Future to get to the Past

Years and years ago, I liked to waste a lot of time playing a game called Wolfenstein 3D. I wouldn't play every night, but I played often enough to kind of possibly understand the way to play the game. Tonight, on a whim, I found a version of Wolfenstein that I can now play on the kids' Windows 7 laptop. Without looking at the maps that are freely available or struggling, I was able to clear the first level. The par for the first level is 1:30 and I cleared it in 3:00-ish. I never made par when I played more frequently. What is really amazing, to me, is that I probably haven't played the game in at least 5 years. What is also really sad, to me, is that I retained the pattern to go through the level in my brain. I really had not given this game a thought in all those years since the last time I played it. The end result of this is two-fold. First, I have a favorite game of mine on the kids' laptop and, when it is the only PC available to me, I can now play it. Second, the contract work I have done for the last nearly 6 months has come to an end. Could it be, I don't know, FREE TIME?!?! Not likely. Alex started baseball season yesterday and has practice on Mondays and Thursdays. On Tuesday, he has drum lessons and Megan has driver's ed class. Wednesday is religious ed, and Thursday is baseball practice and Megan has driver's ed. On Friday, we are going to Cedar Falls to check out the HooDads from 6-9.

ObamaCare

It was to be easy...

But it never seems to work out that way. It was another chaotic night. Life goes on.

i like the part where the guy goes da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da

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MEAN F'ng PEOPLE!!!

DO NOT go to Wrestlescoop.com and look for pro wrestling news! One of their links sent me to a site that made ALL my Desktop icons, all my Favorites, and all my Start menu options be set to Hidden. I just now got it figured out after about 1 hour of silent cursing and trying to understand what had happened. I think I have it all fixed now. It's scary as hell to have an empty Desktop when it normally is covered with shortcuts and folders and files. It's also scare to have all your Favorites in your Favorites tab in IE gone. This site describes what was happening.

Death Metal Drumming

Pause

It's 9 AM on a Saturday. I am in Cedar Falls. We are visiting my in-laws. We played four games of Euchre last night and the score is tied so we will play the rubber today.

Not a lot is really new with me. Our lives kick into overdrive this week with Megan starting driver's ed. Baseball will be starting soon for Alex. The lawn will (hopefully) start to need attention (hopefully because I am okay with spring arriving) and eventually, the summer will arrive. Even though it is only mid-March, I am hoping that the snow blower will not see anymore action this month.

I looked at my brother-in-law's "Guitar World" magazine. There is a list of the "Top 100 Metallica songs" in the issue I found in his bathroom. The top ten are as follows:
Creeping Death
Master of Puppets
Seek and Destroy
Ride the Lightening
One
Battery
The Four Horsemen
Welcome Home (Sanitarium)
All Nightmare Long
Fade to Black
This is from a guitar player's perspective, apparently. I would have picked "Enter Sandman" as one of their best riffs. If not "Sandman", "Sad but True" would have made my list. The 'bottom' of the list is the following:
Loverman
Cyanide
Tuesday’s Gone
Damage Case
Broken Beat and Scarred
Until It Sleeps
The Outlaw Torn
Suicide & Redemption
Wasting My Hate
2 x 4
Turn the Page
I don't believe that the three "Death Magnetic" songs "Cyanide" or "Broken Beat and Scarred" or "Suicide & Redemption" belong here. I would have pushed a couple of the covers on "Garage Inc" lower to the bottom 10 and kept the "Death Magnetic" tracks in the top 90. I wouldn't have put any original songs by the band in the bottom 10. I agree with the bottom 3 - they are not my favorites by any stretch of my mind.

My next project is going to be to create a Windows Media Player playlist.

I got Carl Palmer's DVD this week. This is a video that is on it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gn9fkAGwJcM

Calm Before the Storm

This next week is the calm before the storm, but it's not very calm.

I am donating blood tomorrow night. I will do contract work in the evening.
Tuesday, I have no plans. I will do contract work in the evening.
Wednesday, I have no plans. I will do contract work in the evening.
Thursday, I have no plans. I will do contract work in the evening.
Friday, the relative calm ends. We are going to Cedar Falls to see my in-laws right after I get off work.
Saturday, we will return home.
Sunday, the kids have a youth rally.
Monday, drums/sax lessons.
Tuesday, Megan starts driver's ed
Wednesday, religious ed
Thursday, Megan driver's ed
Friday, not sure but I think something is going on.
Saturday, STM confirmation and the kids are serving
Sunday, Karen is helping a friend with a family meal for their daughter's confirmation
Monday starts the cycle all over again.

Sanctus Real

I get tired, frankly, of the same songs on the two major rock stations and I can't really listen to Bob and Tom on the other radio station because I get annoyed with the constant interrupting of each other. Routinely, I will turn on the Christian music radio station on my way to work. I enjoy this song during my commute.

Idea Worth Spreading

Donnas Overload

As I'm working on my contract work, I spin CDs. I found the Donnas. Wow. I forgot how much I like them.

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Life Moving Along

Lots of time being spent on contract work. Typical day is 8-4:30 at regular job and 9-12 @ night on contract work. I like doing the contract work.

This week is busy. What week isn't?

1. Monday - drums/sax
2. Tuesday - Nothing! (hard to believe!)
3. Wednes - Ash Wednesday Mass @ 6; New season of Real World @ 9!
4. Thurs - Alex's final basketball game
5. Friday - Nothing! (hard to believe!)
6. Saturday - Lunch with BSS; 5:15 Mass; relaxing
7. Sunday - Lunch with someone; relaxing
8. Monday - work 8-4:30; donate blood @ 5; contract work
9. Tuesday - work 8-4:30; contract work
10. Wednesday - work 8-4:30; contract work
11. Thursday - work 8-4:30; contract work
12. Friday - work 8-4:00; go visit in-laws in Waterloo
13. Saturday - return home; Kids serve @ 5:15 Mass
14. Sunday - Youth Rally

Dissimulated - New Favorite Drummer... and Tom Sawyer Cover

Elephant Ears / Sex Offenders . . . Related?

In other news, I tend to lean Republican. Not totally in love with every policy they have and that's okay. This is a website that lists Republican sex offenders. Read at your own risk.

305 to Go

I think that there are a lot of times in life where I relish being able to just pause.

Then I rush off to the next thing that must be done.

Godsmack

This is one of my personal favorite songs by Godsmack.

Listen to that groove at 2:40! SO NICE and tight between the guitar and drummer Shannon Larkin...

Just Another "Oh MY! I'm SO BUSY" type post...

Today came and went. I spent a couple of hours doing my contract work, then we went to 11 AM Mass. I played drums with the high school group and that was a lot of fun. I like to play drums for them because there is a nice vocal performance in my ears when I play. It gives me more energy, in a way, to play with them. I liked the set list of songs and that makes Mass even better.

After Mass, we went to eat. The four of us had the brunch and it was an early indication of what our restaurant bills will look like as the kids exit being on the kids menu and instead are the same price as Karen and I. Not a big deal; just kind of something I thought about.

After breakfast, Megan took us for a drive that included a few miles on I-80. Some chick with a New York license plate didn't like the way Megan entered the interstate and honked her horn at us. Karen was in the front seat for this little excursion.

When we got home, our former neighbor Dave called. He had brought a giant TV from Kansas City to North Liberty and needed help carrying it down the steps. We visited for awhile after that and then returned home.

At home, we putzed around. I was going to watch TV but it didn't seem like there was any time because the next thing I knew, it was time to go to Alex's basketball practice.

When we got home from that, we had supper, played a game of rummy, and then I came down here to write about my day.

This coming week is busy but more on that as the week unfolds.

A Week... Really?

Has it been a week since I sat down here in the den and wrote about life? It's crazy when I put it to myself in that way.

This was the week of band concerts. Megan had her concert band performance on Tuesday, Alex had his concert band performance on Thursday, and Megan had her jazz band performance last night. There is a renewed interest in insisting the kids practice their instruments. New rule: practice 5 out of 7 days a week with the week starting on Saturday. Kids just don't become musicians with a 1/2 hour of a lesson a week. Time has to be invested.

I wish, in some ways, I had that sort of oversight when I was younger. I took snare drum lessons (and then drumset lessons) for years and I never practiced. I wanted to be Peter Criss (KISS) or Liberty DeVito (Billy Joel) but I did not want to put the time into it.

I hope I can teach my kids to want it.

And my comment about having a repairman look @ the dryer? Didn't happen. Our new washer/dryer should be in our house in no less than 3 hours.

Done Deal

What a long and eventful day... but it doesn't feel like I did much.

First, went to Shueyville to turn our taxes in to our tax lady.
Second, drove to see my mom in the nursing home.
Third, visited my dad and got his laptop to access the internet with AOL dial-up. GAG!
Fourth, saw the latest Harry Potter movie.
Fifth, stopped at 1/2 Price Books and got MASH Season 2 on DVD and Metallica's Death Magnetic both for under $12.
Sixth, drove home and went to 5:15 Mass.
Seventh, bought a new washer and dryer @ Sears.
Eighth, ate supper at Chilli's.
Ninth, listened to the new Bayside.
Tenth, found out that Emily's graduation party may not be on 5/21 so it's possible I may be able to see Bayside in Des Moines on 5/21. That would rock my world...
Eleventh, watched this video

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